Yes, that's right. I have conquered another Parisian fear. The dreaded
coiffeuse (hairdresser). It is always a little scary to be in a position where you have to find someone new to cut your hair. Is this person going to send me out the door looking like a new and improved version of me? Or will I leave wanting to go through the next few months with a paper bag on my head? The mental image of the latter has had me avoiding Parisian salons since my arrival in July.
But today, I woke up and was just plain annoyed by my hair. I was tired of the pony tail that was becoming my go-to look. I was tired of spending forever each morning on drying, straightening, curling, etc...only to have my hair return to its flat, lifeless look the second I stepped out of the door. I was determined that I would fix the situation, and I would fix it TODAY!
And then reality hit me. How am I supposed to explain the way I want my hair cut? What if they ask me a whole bunch of questions? I heard you have to tip the person who shampoos you and the person who cuts your hair...how much am I supposed to give them? Do I need an appointment, or can I just walk in? AHHHHHHHH!! My questions and subsequent anxiety began to get the best of me.
So I did what I always do when I am anxious. I GOOGLE. Google can solve all problems, right? I started with googling:
shoulder length hair styles. I emerged from that search with a picture of a cute cut that I could take with me to the salon. Next:
tipping in French hair salons. From that search, I learned that a 5-10 euro tip was appropriate for the person cutting my hair, and a couple euros would be plenty for the shampoo girl. Finally, I googled:
French phrases for the salon. Believe it or not, I found a very helpful page with a lot of advice for getting what you want in a French salon.
Now I was armed and ready. All I needed was the actual salon. There are 5 or 6 in my neighborhood that I walk by daily, so I decided those were a good place to start. The salons all post their prices on the windows, so I meandered by each of them as nonchalantly as possible to check them out. I did not want to draw attention to myself.
I spent 20 minutes going up and down my street, passing the salons each time. For the life of me, I could not get up the nerve to go inside. The salons were all so...um....glitzy. Shiny. Glam. And yes, that sounds exciting, but it is also quite intimidating. I couldn't bring myself to just open up the door and blurt out my memorized phrases.
That's when I decided I needed a different type of salon. One with more of a "Steel Magnolias" feel. You know? One where I could develop a personal relationship with the person who cuts my hair. One where they would remember my name and look happy that I had come back. Was a place like this possible in Paris?
At that moment, I noticed a small hair salon down a side street. I was going to just casually walk buy and try to get a glimpse. As I passed the store, I could tell it was much more my style. It was nice, but didn't have the intimidation factor of the chain salons on the main drag. Before I even knew what was happening, I realized I had walked straight to the door and was beginning to open it. No turning back now!
As soon as I entered the salon, I was greeted very quickly with, "Bonjour Madame!" and then someone took my coat. I explained to the girl who greeted me (IN FRENCH!!) that I wanted a cut like the one in the picture I brought. And she UNDERSTOOD me! She took me right back and started shampooing me. There were a few questions I didn't understand, so she switched to English (YES YES YES!).
When she finished, she introduced me to Isabelle, who was going to cut my hair. Isabelle was WONDERFUL! We spoke a mixture of French and English...probably more English than French (even though she told me her English wasn't good...not true). She gave me a great cut and I even remembered to tip both gals. I have an appointment to go back to see her in 2 months! VICTORY IS MINE!